I harness my natural dominance to transport my submissive lovers to another realm.

When we're in the dungeon or simply out on a date, I weave together irresistible experiences that tap into our shared impulses. While my personality is outspoken, empathetic, and passionate, when we're together my sensual side emerges.

My favorite play partners are open-minded and responsive. You'll learn to recognize the primal glint in my eye that surfaces when I’m enjoying myself.

Whether I'm inflicting exquisite pain, immersing us both in an elaborate roleplay, or unearthing your hidden desires over dinner, there's no mistaking who's in control. You belong to me, and you'll savor every moment.

With that being said, I don’t enjoy acting arbitrarily mean or abusive. I never shout to prove a point. Although not everything needs to be whips & chains, if you have no desire to be topped then I’m not the right provider for you.

As a queer/polyamorous/kinky woman, I practice risk-aware consensual kink and firmly believe in listening with an open mind and without judgment. I actively welcome clients of all genders, sexual orientations, racial backgrounds, and physical abilities.

My love of this vocation is rooted in a

deep empathy. As a former overworked

tech industry professional, nothing brings

me more joy than helping others escape

the pressure of their everyday lives. I find

it deeply gratifying to watch someone let

go of their stress and tension, and leave

feeling lighter than when they arrived.

On dates, I'm fond of exploring more

casual, intimate exchanges. I want to

unearth the roots of your desires and

understand what makes you tick. I enjoy

starting a date over a glass of wine at a

quiet bar where we can connect

intellectually and relax into each other's

presence.

Some of the most enjoyable dates I've

been on have involved elements of

hypnosis, bondage, and sensory

deprivation. When I take control of our

pleasure, it's deeply intuitive and sensual.

In the dungeon, I'm eclectic but gravitate

towards a few types of scenes. Roleplay

scenarios involving a plot and a power

exchange are where I shine the most. I've

been told I play a compelling evil

secretary, rebellious hacker, and

manipulative girl next door. Even when

exploring classic tropes, I engage from a

point of realism: as a nurse, I show up in

scrubs with a printed chart, not a cheesy

Halloween costume. You won't see my

perversions emerge until I'm certain you're

immersed in the fantasy.

Strict, high protocol scenes involving

corporal punishment are another favorite. 

I want to see you turn off your mind,

relinquish control, and allow me to fully

take charge. As a longtime lifestyle player,

I'm adept in the arts of impact, bondage,

and sensation play.

I’m highly selective about who I choose to

spend my time with, and I genuinely enjoy

the company I keep as a result.

My socials;

Facebook- Vanessa Hales Donald

Telegram - @I_am_Mistress_Vanesssa 

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Fet-Life - DommeMissVanessa